To Every Problem, Create a Solution!

If you can form the belief that no matter what happens there is a solution, you will become unstoppable!

 

Be honest with yourself when faced with obstacles, adversity and problems do you run from them or deal with them yourself? If you can create the habit of facing obstacles etc you will form an unstoppable force of finding solutions and creating a reality which suites you.

This tip is a killer because what this actually does is take away the power which you give to a ‘problem’. See what happens is something will happen and we will give it the meaning of being a problem, we look at everything which is ‘wrong’ and create a huge story around it, by saying how we are a victim and why do things like this always happen to me!

The main focus of when any issue/problem arises is to take a minute and ask yourself “what is the lesson I can gain from this”. What this does is completely shift the focus onto what is the good to come from the issue/problem. See in reality any event is not good or bad it all depends on the meaning we give to that event.

 

Make The Shift

Once your mind is shifted towards what is the goodness, your next stage is to focus on what the solution is. This is vital because once we lock ourselves into the problem, blaming and shaming ourselves and others we add to the issue which is completely unproductive. What also happens we can take something minor and turn it into a problem, a much bigger one than to which it originally was, we add other problems to the problem, thus creating a bigger problem.

What is beautiful about problems is there is always a solution, problems bring solutions and why do we learn so much from problems because we have to be creative in our approach to finding the solution, this is how we grow.

So next time something arises, take a moment, ask what the lesson to be learnt is and become a master at creating solutions not adding to problems!

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